In Consideration of Ramadan

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Our staff took an in-service afternoon to design a new approach to Ramadan. It wasn’t for a teaching unit, but out of consideration for the more than 30 Muslim students in our school. During this period of religious observance, which requires fasting, these students were directed to the cafeteria at lunchtime as usual. Some took refuge in the media center, but most suffered in the cafeteria.

Stella, our new principal, and a majority of the faculty are culturally Christian. We had not realized how large the Muslim student population was in this Midwestern, urban middle school. Our principal asked how to be sensitive to the needs of these students and keep them engaged. We now had an opportunity to create a solution, honor a cultural tradition and better serve our students.

Audra, head of our media center, said she had seen students come into the center, hungry and bored. That boredom led to violations of the school Internet policy that frowned upon the use of Facebook or non-educational games.

As the brainstorming began, we quickly realized most of us knew little about the local Muslim community. Audra and our ESL teacher, Madiha, knew more. Some members of the Muslim community had been in our community for decades and had even founded a local mosque, while others were part of a stream of new immigrants.

“They’re hungry, and—let’s face it—bored,” Audra said, adding that this year’s holy days were being celebrated during the first three weeks of school. “Even in the media center, they try to be good, but calling it an ‘extra study hall’ is not really helpful. They aren’t working on major research this early in the year, yet they are sitting right next to the computers. Students ought to have something useful to do.”

We all knew the district’s Internet policy. The central office didn’t want students using email, Facebook or non-educational games during school hours, even if they had nothing else to do. Enforcing that rule was an endless headache for any faculty member supervising computer use.

Madiha developed a “mentor project,” exercises for English language learners. She also arranged to have experienced speakers act as tutors.

Audra contacted the local Imam, the Muslim prayer leader. He recruited three of our students to make lunch tray favors for nursing home residents as a community-service project.

Others participated in extra football, soccer or track practice during lunch-hour PE classes. The band and choir teachers opened their classes to the musically inclined. I offered an extra-credit project to study Islamic art.

A few students opted to read quietly in the media center, but most of the special projects had at least one taker. Parents were delighted and let the district know. Soon there were programs like ours in all grades.

We were truly serving our students. All it took was being mindful and being given the opportunity to be proactive for our students.

Gephardt teaches private art classes in Kansas.

Comments

I don't know where your

Submitted by J. Jamil on 21 July 2012 - 2:11pm.

I don't know where your school is located, but as Muslim mother of 2, thank you! I appreciate that the situation was not looked upon as a problem, but as a learning experience for everyone.

I also don't know where your

Submitted by lindsey walker on 31 July 2012 - 2:23pm.

I also don't know where your school is located in Kansas, but as a non-
muslim parent of two racially diverse kids in the public school system
in northern michigan I also wanted to thank you! What a great opportunity
to turn something as sacred as fasting and religous observation into a
learning experience for all those involved.

Hello! A friend of mine just

Submitted by Marjana on 21 July 2012 - 2:20pm.

Hello! A friend of mine just shared this article with me on Facebook. I am so grateful for people like you! I just launched a project known as PROJECT: EID AWARENESS. Friends & I aim to bring awareness to the Muslim Holidays in public schools, charter schools etc. (the schools which already decorate for other holidays such as Christmas, etc. as some do not and only decorate for seasons). We bring awareness by donating banners I designed. I'd love to mail you some!! :- ) Please contact me at 215 908 2001 or you may email your address to me to mcbexpress@comcast.net

Here is our group wall on FaceBook: http://www.facebook.com/groups/345790285449079/

Thank you! - Marji NasrAllah

That's excellent! I love

Submitted by Marian on 21 July 2012 - 3:34pm.

That's excellent! I love this story and love how open minded this school was.
But, speaking of children having to suffer in the cafeteria - does the school provide non-meat meals for the Catholic during Lent? Or for the Orthodox during Advent? Are there accomodations made for Jewish students.
Not criticizing - just wondering.

Judging from my experiences.

Submitted by LindaF on 28 July 2012 - 6:09am.

Judging from my experiences. in both Northern and Southern schools (rural, city, and suburban), don't be ridiculous!

ONLY Muslim students get the special treatment - Catholics, Orthodox, and others can pound salt.

Just like dress codes - ONLY the Muslim students get to ignore them - other students are punished for infractions.

ONLY Muslim students get to miss school for Friday prayers without penalty - other students are told they have forfeited their credit for excessive absences.

Linda, I really hope that you

Submitted by Renee H on 31 July 2012 - 12:34pm.

Linda,

I really hope that you are not an educator, as your comments are quite offensive and sounds like it's coming from someone who is quite ignorant. In school, we always have to be accommodating to our students, whether a student has an IEP or a religious obligation. School is a second home for our students and it's important that we make them feel welcomed and accepted. If you are an educator, I feel really sorry for your students, as you have no empathy or consideration for others who may be different than you.

I am in agreement with Renee

Submitted by Lydia on 31 July 2012 - 6:49pm.

I am in agreement with Renee H.-as an eductor or not an educator, to have an adult verbalize such a perspective is disturbing and one reason we have to work to dispel thoughts like these when young people bring them to our classrooms. But, I believe for adults like Linda-when we know better we do better. My wish is that there can be a much different perspective shared with you to show that we really strive to support each of our students and to recognize their differences in an uplifting and inclusive manner-be they Muslim, Christian, non-religion affiliated, ethnic and cultural differences, etc. We are in school to teach curriculum effectively for our students to build solid foundations for learning.

So true.

Submitted by ken on 31 July 2012 - 3:41pm.

So true.

Is is safe to suggest that

Submitted by Omelia on 31 July 2012 - 2:42pm.

Is is safe to suggest that students who are fasting exercise during the lunch period?

I have only fasted once in my life, so I am relatively ignorant, but I certainly kept my physical activity to a minimum during that fast.

My question for Linda who is

Submitted by Mary Jane on 31 July 2012 - 7:32pm.

My question for Linda who is evidencing concern for Orthodox, Catholic, Jewish students, what have you done to support the students who you are concerned about? During Lent, I offer non candy rewards to my observant students, all students can make up work due to religious observances, I offer vegan treats to my vegan students, I try to educate all my students about the different belief systems present in our varied population, that way the students start to see us as humans and not as "others." We all need to work on this.

Finally to read something

Submitted by Tobias A. Weissman on 1 August 2012 - 9:56am.

Finally to read something like this. Our country respects all religions, but today, little of that respect is practiced. Your school should be considered, A ROLE MODEL.