On the rare occasion that I spend time with people who are not educators, it’s inevitable that someone will drop the word “retarded.” The “R-word” has been used colloquially for decades to describe and degrade anyone or anything out of the ordinary, inferior, or somehow slow. I can still hear the snickers from my own classmates back in 10th-grade health class when we read the words “fire retardant” in our textbook.
This word is so loaded it’s no wonder that Rosa Marcellino, a 9-year-old with Down Syndrome from Maryland, wanted it removed for good. With the help of her brother, her devoted parents, a congresswoman and finally Barack Obama, she succeeded in doing just that.
“Rosa’s Law” was signed by the president on Oct. 5. Under the new law, the classification “mentally retarded” (MR) has been changed to “intellectually disabled” (ID). The criteria used to determine if a person is considered intellectually disabled is the same. Already individualized education plans (IEPs) are being updated to reflect the new language, making “mentally retarded” obsolete.
This is good news to some, a sign that we’ve progressed as a society. To them, “retarded” can go the way of its predecessors—“moron,” “idiot” and “imbecile.” Just as they can be glad that women are no longer considered hysterical, people with cognitive disabilities are no longer retarded. Remove the label and remove the prejudice.
Others are not as optimistic. “ID will be the new MR,” says Autumn Yoakum, the Special Day Class teacher at my school. “And we will have spent a ton of time and energy trying to soften the effect of a label instead of truly teaching tolerance of learning differences.” Moreover, she feels like MR is more narrow in scope and “still has a place within the category of ID. MR usually includes students that have issues socially and with self-care. ID seems more appropriate considering students who are low cognitively.”
Yoakum’s point is well taken. Simply changing the name will have little impact on the perception of people with cognitive disabilities if understanding and tolerance are not taught in tandem with these changes.
I should know.
Just the other day during passing period I heard a student say, “That’s hella retarded.” I stopped and said, “I think you know that word can be hurtful. What’s a word that better describes what you are trying to say?” The student looked at her feet with shame and thought for a moment. She clearly hadn’t meant any harm but was just using a familiar expression. After a few moments she looked up at me and said, “That’s hella weird!”
Without the time or presence of mind to take the conversation further, I declared, “Thank you. That’s better.” But it wasn’t. And it won’t be until educators like myself do more than just tell students not to use a particular word.
Thomas teaches English at Life Academy of Health and Bioscience in Oakland, Calif.



Comments
I think eliminating the word
I think eliminating the word "retarded" is not going to decrease use of a similar word in a derogatory manner. It would be more useful to work on compassion.
I work in a medical profession and the term mental retardation in a cluster of symptoms in certain syndromes. We've used mentally impaired for a while, but that is often confused with mental illness. Mentally retarded (global cognitive deficits) is different from cognitive deficits (specific domains.)
I've seen "being on the spectrum" used for autism, because autism is a word that now holds a lot of emotion.
That is so true. Medically
That is so true. Medically speaking, mental retardation describes my daughter much more precisely than intellectually challenged. At least when I refer to her as MR, the professionals know what I'm talking about. I also work in special ed. and there are all sorts of labels that describe our students. While I find calling something "retarded" offensive, and try to educate my students (and unfortunately staff who should know better), I really don't think it will have much of an impact in the near future. Changing people's perceptions takes an enormous amount of time. Changing their language takes even longer.
I think changing the word
I think changing the word will make no difference. What is important is that person first language is used. Mentally retarded or intellectually disabled still dismisses the person and places emphasis on the disability. A person with an intellectual disability or with mental retardation is first and foremost a person an individual.
It IS important. It DOES
It IS important. It DOES make a difference. When we sit in an IEP meeting and tell a teenager they are classified as metally retarded (because suddenly they are required to attend and be part of that process) I watch the life go out of them. We have labled them as something the media, society, even their friends have suggested is worthless their entire lives. Intellectually disabled allows room for them to breath. Sure, there will be closed minded people who cannot step out of their box to see why one label is better than the other, but they are not important. The people we are giving back a bit of grace are the ones that are relevant here. Blessings.
Thank you for my two special
Thank you for my two special sons.
Kudos to Rosa Marcellino,
Kudos to Rosa Marcellino, Rosa's family, the congresswoman,and President Barack Obama for passing Rosa's Law. Changing prejudice starts with getting rid of the R word and not allowing students to use it. Kudos to the teacher who stopped the student who used the R word and asked the student to say what she really meant. I am a special education teacher, and I myself am offended when I hear people use the R word, and I know many of my students and their parents would be offended as well. When I hear students use the R word, I require them to restate what they said using another word. Don't allow the R word; it is a step to stop prejudice and make a positive difference.