The Anoka-Hennepin school district, Minnesota’s largest, has been in the national spotlight since last year. That’s when several students who were gay or perceived to be gay committed suicide. According to friends and family, the students had one thing in common: They had been bullied at school.
The school district has made some halting efforts to forbid anti-LGBT bullying, but has done little to address the prejudices that fuel it. Worse, district officials refuse to lift their official sexual orientation curriculum policy—in effect, a “gag order”—that prevents teachers from discussing LGBT issues with students. Pleas to do so have come from within the community, most visibly from Tammy Aaberg, mother of one of the victims. The policy effectively keeps staff members from acknowledging that LGBT people exist.
Superintendent Dennis Carlson told CNN this week that the policy is a reasonable way to handle the situation. It seems that “the situation,” for Carlson, is less about protecting children and more about appeasing local anti-LGBT forces. “It’s a diverse community,” he said in the interview, “and what I try to do is walk down the middle of the road.”
But there is no middle of the road when it comes to protecting rights. Likewise, there’s no middle of the road when it comes to creating a safe environment at school. And there is no middle of the road when, standing on one side are students and on the other are homophobic people spewing hate. There is only the right thing to do, and Anoka-Hennepin has refused to do it.
What’s it like to be an LGBT student in Anoka-Hennepin? Here’s an account from one 14-year-old student, who is now suing the district:
“It got so bad that every day when my bus got to school I thought about hiding under one of the seats so I wouldn’t have to go in to school—so I wouldn’t be called names or pushed around and so I wouldn’t have to hear the rumors other kids were making up about me.”
This kind of anecdote, one of dozens, explains why the district is now facing legal a challenge.
Thursday, the Southern Poverty Law Center (Teaching Tolerance’s parent organization) and the National Center for Lesbian Rights sued the district, demanding that it confront the pervasive anti-gay harassment in its schools and end the gag policy.
The lawsuit was filed on behalf of five students who have faced severe anti-LGBT bullying and harassment in school. It comes just one day after news reports placed Anoka-Hennepin at the center of an investigation into anti-gay bullying by the U.S. Department of Justice and the U.S. Department of Education’s Office of Civil Rights.
Many in Anoka-Hennepin realize the need to support LGBT students and are speaking out. Teacher Jeri Schultz was quoted on CNN as saying, “There is so much we can’t do and say [because of the gag policy] to help create a more accepting and affirming and welcoming environment that would eliminate that bullying in the first place.”
That is exactly right. We applaud everyone in the Anoka-Hennepin schools who is taking a personal risk to keep LGBT students safe. It’s all too clear that the school district has taken an unhealthy, dangerous situation and frozen it in place with “middle of the road” policies.
Price is managing editor of Teaching Tolerance.



Comments
You have no proof of this
You have no proof of this statement: "That’s when several students who were gay or perceived to be gay committed suicide." Exactly one gay student committed suicide and we only know he's gay because his mother has said so. You don't know any of these other families or the real/perceived sexual orientation of the students who died. Either figure out exactly who was gay or stop making this inappropriate connection. The reasons for suicide are unique to each situation. And in none of the suicides in Anoka-Hennepin has it been determined any of the students were "bullied to death."
Be that as it may Bret, there
Be that as it may Bret, there is NO excuse for bullying ANYONE, and if you think suicide is not happening amongst gay and lesbian youth, you are dead wrong. Not sure if your ignorance is willful, or just plain hate. Do you REALLY think that families are going to all come out and talk about their chldren's sexual orientation- NO, many families would rather their child be dead than gay, and hide it as a dirty little secret.If you think bullying aginst gays and lesbians doesn't happen there, again you are dead wrong- my 58 years would beg to differ. I saw first hand the "straight b oys" harassing guys comiong out of the bars on Hennepin Ave. and that is just one place, it goes on all over the world Bret.
I would NEVER want to see my
I would NEVER want to see my children dead just because they are gay. I support them in everything they do. It is not a parents job to "out" their children and being gay is not a dirty little secret!
Brett Johnson, The fact
Brett Johnson,
The fact that even one child had to die and still no action on the part of the district is "inapproriate", as well as the fact you, the school board, and Dennis Carlson continue to justify the fact that you've done very little to help these kids or even contact their families is beyond explanation. Superintendent Carlson already admitted on CNN Sunday night that the district is aware of the fact that Gay kids are bullied and harrassed on a daily basis but also put all the blame on the victims for not coming forward. As a taxpayer, parent and community member in this school district I think things just went from a case of civil liability to criminal negligence. The unprofessional and incompetent actions of yourself, this school board and the superintendent have cost our community too much but none have paid a higher price than the parents of the kids you all failed to protect, and the familes of those still discriminated against and targeted on a daily basis, you should all be ashamed of yourselves, I sure am!
Mrs Melissa Thompson
Parent of two AH students
Why doesn't this school
Why doesn't this school enforce it's zero tolerance policy, regardless whether some students are Gay. Being Gay has nothing to do with allowing someone to be threatened, humiliated or bullied. Every student has the right to be free from harassment of any kind. Bullying should not be permitted to exist at all, against anyone. A safe school environment should be the goal of these school's as the guardian of these children. It is not the school's job to question the propriety of children's sexual orientation. It is the school's job to ensure a safe school environment for every child. Nessus
True. Also- irrelevent. In
True. Also- irrelevent.
In that case, please enlighten us as to why these suicides occurred.
(It's also statistically proven that gay teenagers are much more likely to commit suicide due to
the poor treatment by their peers. So, there is still more proof to that theory than what you are saying.)
I'm not saying you're wrong. I'm saying you aren't thinking.
Don't challenge ideas until you have an answer of your own. If you think there's something false about their claims, figure it out for yourself. If you don't care enough to do that, don't comment on it.
I am now, and I was in high
I am now, and I was in high school in the 1990s, described as the stereotypical "100 pound weakling". I was bullied all through school. Until I did one thing: I BEGAN ATTACKING MY BULLIES!!!
I didn't care with what: a schoolbook, a baseball bat...I even hit one kid in the face with the butt of the M-14 I was issued in JROTC when he grabbed my cover off the top of my head, I assume to play keep away with it.
Guess what? By junior year, the bullying stopped. I got suspended a lot, but I was no longer seen as an easy target.
Teach this to your children. Hit back, hit hard and keep hitting. When your bully hits the ground, kick their skull into the curb! They will not stop until you stop them!
I know liberals would say, "You should turn the other cheek." That only leads to further beatings.
Even if it takes a kick in the groin, do what you must to survive. Lex Talionis!