Bully at the Blackboard

His teacher had urged him all year to be more organized, but he still had trouble keeping his work area neat. The boy’s papers and other materials were often scattered around, and when his classmates were ready to move on to the next activity, he lagged behind—trying to corral the clutter.

On this particular day, the teacher had lost her patience. According to a district report, she chastised her student: “Your area looks like a pig sty. Piggy, piggy! Oink, oink!” Exactly what happened next has been difficult to pin down. But by the time another teacher entered the classroom, the boy had been surrounded by his classmates, who taunted him with “oinks” and other pig sounds. Alone in the center, the boy was sobbing.

By some accounts, his teacher—a veteran of 38 years— encouraged the children to join the chant. She told district officials she didn’t notice when they began to taunt him, although she did agree it wasn’t appropriate behavior. The children themselves turned out to be somewhat unreliable witnesses. They were just kindergartners.

Illustrations by Mark McGinnis

A Wake-Up Call
The incident, which drew nationwide attention, was a wake-up call for Roane County Schools in Tennessee.

“For something like this to happen was so crushing to us, so against everything we believe in,” says Toni McGriff, director of the 18-school district. During the accreditation process last year by the Southern Association of Colleges and Schools, students on the elementary campus were interviewed about bullying, among other things. According to McGriff, one boy is heard on tape saying, “Oh, in this school, we don’t have bullying. I’ve heard about it. But we don’t have it.” The school is also a demonstration campus for the district’s school-wide Positive Behavior Support program, in which students are recognized for respectful behavior and earn points toward donated prizes and acknowledgment at community events.

“You might assume that every child [already] knows what appropriate behavior looks like,” says McGriff. But they—as well as teachers—bring their own backgrounds and experiences to the classroom, where respecting others is crucial to a positive learning environment. She says that she and her school principals “are trying so hard to instill that you don’t mistreat others— whether you call that disrespect, harassment or bullying,” that it’s become part of the district’s culture at all levels. And yet, the incident this spring has educators there wondering what they could have done differently.

An “Undiscussable”
Dr. Stuart Twemlow is familiar with the situation faced by McGriff and her district. A psychiatrist, he also is the director of the Peaceful Schools and Communities Project at Baylor College of Medicine’s Menninger Child and Family Program. Twemlow is well-known for his research on teacher bullying, including a 2005 study in which 45 percent of sampled teachers said they had bullied a student at some point in their careers.

But little other research on the topic has been done, and statistics that might give a broader perspective on the problem are even more scarce. The most definitive assessment of safety in schools is the Indicators of School Crime and Safety survey. The annual survey is jointly carried out and reported by the National Center for Educational Statistics and the Bureau of Justice Statistics. But the most recent report from 2010, which uses 2007 data, does not include survey questions or any school reporting on the issue— although there are statistics on students who bully teachers.

Twemlow appreciates the honesty of the teachers he sampled, “because there is no doubt that there are ‘undiscussables’ in schools,” and teacher bullying is one of them, he says. And while he has helped write professional development manuals that address the issue, he has also cowritten an e-book with the provocative title Why School Anti-Bullying Programs Don’t Work.

And why is that the case?

“Any number of programs that are shown to be effective will not be successful … when the money runs out or the people that are passionate leave,” he says. “The issue is sustainability … if you were to see bullying as a process, not a person, then your whole approach would change. There will always be new teachers, new students and new situations.”

The process, explains Twemlow, means that schools must understand the power dynamics among bullies, victims and bystanders. He tells the story of a student who reported to him that his teacher had been calling him by a girl’s name all year, despite his anguish.

“I couldn’t believe it,” he says. “This was a respected senior teacher who loved children; she was not a bad teacher.” Confronted, the teacher admitted what she’d been doing and was devastated to realize she had been bullying the child all year. She had forgotten the inherent power that was part of her position.

“What teachers need to know is that our brains are hard-wired to obey those in charge,” says Twemlow. “And, for a small child, the teacher is the one in charge. Teachers have to respect that they’re seen that way.” Regardless of age, victims without the power to change the situation are at risk for low self-esteem, anxiety, increased absences and poor academic achievement.

Bystanders, such as other teachers or administrators, have their own power—either to end the bullying they witness or to allow it to continue. In the Roane County elementary school, a colleague witnessed at least part of the incident, confronted the teacher and reported her actions to school administrators. But too often, bystanders are held back by conflicting loyalties or the fear of retaliation.

With the dynamics of all three in play, Twemlow says, a typical character education program isn’t enough to address the issue.

A New Awareness
McGriff agrees that when money gets tight, programs such as those developed by Twemlow, bullying research pioneer Dan Olweus and others are subject to cuts. From her perspective, that is why it’s even more important to have an organic environment of respect, such as the one Roane County Schools have tried to cultivate for students.

“What we know we have to work on is teachers … recognizing (bullying) in all of its forms,” she says, praising the teacher who saw, stopped and reported the incident in her district.

The kindergarten teacher at the center of it apologized to students and parents and served a one-day suspension. She is currently on medical leave. Although the incident and the resulting outcry was “very traumatic for her,” says McGriff, she is expected to return to the classroom in the fall.

“Teachers have to live to a higher level of accountability because of the precious commodity we have” in children, says McGriff. But “they are human. They make mistakes. On occasion, they show bad judgment.

“This has made us more acutely aware of our need to lift up children and lift up teachers, so that they know how to respond” in the future.


Another Tennesee county...

Submitted by Anonymous on 16 September 2014 - 8:30pm.

My daughter is a third grader in another Tennessee county school. Last month we dealt with a very severe incident regarding her teacher, who has been investigated several times in the past for similar complaints. She singled out my daughter and yelled at her repeatedly in front of the class until she began crying and then experienced a panic attack. I asked school officials to remove my child from the classroom, as she is terrified of this teacher. unfortunately, the school officials felt that their hands were tied because of previous legal action against them. Ultimately, we were told that my daughter must remain in this teacher's classroom. My daughter is a straight A student and has never had discipline issues in school. Is it fair that we should have to transfer her to another school just to avoid a teacher who bullies her? I don't think so...


Submitted by Anonymous on 31 January 2015 - 9:41pm.

tell the teacher to fess up

transfer denied to student bullied by teacher

Submitted by Anonymous on 11 November 2014 - 8:24pm.

We refused to have our daughter, also no past school issues, return to her bullying teacher's math class. She is self teaching in the school office while we sort this out. We hired a psychologist, also qualified as an expert witness, to take her testimony against the teacher and he mailed this to the superintendent, principal and other staff involved to state that having her remain with this teacher would be inappropriate. My daughter's plan is to take an online survey of the student experiences and have her P.E. classmates with the same teacher write letters of complaint. We are also surveying students and parents at this time. Please see www.ratemyteacher.com. This will help us as well as it shows years of anger issues that we will follow up on with the school in meeting with this teacher.

I knew some teachers that use to do that

Submitted by Anonymous on 19 March 2014 - 11:41am.

I know some teachers that use to do that when I was in school, It does wonderful things to enable children to become very maladjusted adults. Not just the kid who is the focus on the ridicule But the bystanders as well. Nothing like instructing our youth to marginalize and harass the outgroup from a young age! I mean after all if a whole class of your peers is lead by example by the teacher to pick on a kid for something then it might be the right thing to do...right?

Sadly those lessons can take a life time to overcome. And I am a bit hazy on moral development from childhood to adult. But kids at that age tend to view morals in the context of "will I get in trouble or not" And every lesson in that age is built on in later stages of moral development.
Some kids may become far better people for that, Some may become the people we read about in the news.

I was once a target myself

Submitted by CherieRHSlovest... on 13 August 2015 - 12:18pm.

When I was in school, I knew a handful of teachers like that myself. I was in high school in yet another Tennessee County, about 50 miles north of Memphis back in the late 80's when bullying was still thought of as a rite of passage so resources for getting help were next to nonexistant back then.

This brings to mind a certain teacher in her late thirties, whom I had in the eleventh grade, she taught History. It was bad enough that I was already being bullied by the students and because of the lies and rumors that were spread, my name had already been tarnished, but it was even worse when a teacher, who was supposed to be in a position to help and encourage me, would also often bully me by yelling, nit picking and humiliating me in front of my classmates and as a result, further enbolden the other kids to torment me. She could say the most cutting and hurtful things that would break my heart into a million slivers.

Having been a military kid, come from a Christian family, and taught to have respect for authority, I got along with and had no problem with a vast majority of my teachers. However, there were a couple of them who taught me that even people in authority can be mean and cruel.

To this day, I do not understand what motivates a few teachers to deliberately shatter the spirit of a child.

I know what it is like and let me tell you, it isn't fun! It was humiliating and heartbreaking to say the least. I can't even count the times I would ask this teacher permission to go to the girl's room, go to the bathroom, hide in on of the stalls and cry my eyes out, almost to the point of sobbing.

No child or teen deserves to have their spirit broken like that. And with a teacher, the power dynamic is set!

The child has no power whatsoever and because the bully is a teacher, the parents automatically assume that the child is at fault or is lying to cover up a wrong doing they just happened to get called out on by said teacher.

In a case like this, who can you turn to?

I am currently finishing a book about how I was mercilessly bullied by not only my classmates but even a few teachers as well. This book will be published.

It is my hope that this book will shed some light into the dark and dismal world of a bullied child or teen and the worthlessness and sadness they feel, the toxic learning environment they walk into every morning, the desperate attempts they make to hold tightly to their own dignity, and the hopelessness of their situation. Also, the purpose of my book is to assure everyone who going through the same thing that their lives will get better if they do not get discouraged.

It does not last forever. It does get better and they can come out even BETTER on the other side of it.




So, the question of the hour

Submitted by Music Teacher on 16 October 2012 - 9:00pm.

So, the question of the hour is: what do you do when your administrator has pinpointed you as a bully teacher, but she herself is the actual bully? Teachers that never had a problem for years are suddenly being picked on with a new administrator, and she doesn't even seem to want to try to understand or work to help us really?

I was in a situation like that

Submitted by Anonymous on 20 March 2014 - 3:31pm.

I was in a situation like that in my old workplace, Granted it was federal service and not teaching. But the only advice I can give is cover your six, Document fully anything they want you to do, And do not let yourself get alienated from your peers.

I am glad this issue was

Submitted by SG on 2 February 2012 - 6:25pm.

I am glad this issue was brought up. My child has not been bullied, but has come home with numerous tales of one teacher who bullies other students in the class. For example, the teacher was teaching a history lesson about a certain culture's eating habits, and stopped and said, "You can relate to that, can't you E***? You like to eat." E*** is an overweight boy in the class. Another overweight girl approached to turn in her paper and the teacher exclaimed, "Whoa, I can't believe you could fit through that aisle." The girl sat with her head down, teary eyed for the remainder of class. When discussing why he felt the current President is in office, he told the class that it was because the young, poor and minorities came out in large numbers to vote. He then singled out an African American and a Hispanic student and said, "Isn't that right ****** and ********?" I guess he thinks he is being funny, but the other kids in the class feel bad for the students who have been singled out and made a joke of. The teacher cannot understand why he does not have the respect he feels he deserves from his students.

and might have you or your

Submitted by lisa englert on 30 July 2012 - 7:56am.

and might have you or your son said anything to bring this teachers behavior to light? if you are not part of the solution then you are part of the problem

I believe that character

Submitted by Janice Heck on 3 November 2011 - 8:56pm.

I believe that character education is important in classrooms and that bullying is a significant issue that needs to be addressed in all schools. Attitudes are difficult to shape and easily go awry. Peers easily sway peers.
But one thing has always bothered me. We emphasize Tolerance, but one definition of tolerance is-- to bear with or put up with something not especially liked. I think we need to emphasize the respect aspect of tolerance...that we respect individual differences and beliefs. We may not agree with everything that others believe, but we need to respect their right to their beliefs. Just tolerating their beliefs seems a bit disrepectful. Tolerance has a negative connotation. Subtle distinction, I know, but it's there just the same.

Yes - it is possible for a

Submitted by jean on 2 November 2011 - 7:51am.

Yes - it is possible for a teacher to bully a student but that can also go the other way. In addition it is also possible for administrators to bully teachers and even - believe it or not - teachers to bully other teachers. I think if we all try to remember the golden rule we could actually do something about bullying in society as a whole. Bullies do not stop bullying when they grow up to be teachers, doctors, lawyers, politicians etc.

I think it is very difficult

Submitted by Darlene Kanzler on 15 December 2011 - 4:24pm.

I think it is very difficult to teach kids positive behavior because they are mired in the opposite: our politicians are primarily campaigning by bullying, the celebrities and reality TV stars kids watch routinely bully one another and even the athletes they look up to demonstrate poor sportsmanship in games. Limiting media influences is one of the greatest ways to help kids develop their capacity to care about others.

Thank you so much for

Submitted by Gwen on 3 November 2011 - 9:58am.

Thank you so much for mentioning how adults within a school can bully each other. Unfortunately, teachers bullying teachers is fairly common in my school. As is administrators bullying teachers and parents bullying teachers. Over the years I have learned to quietly assert myself and focus on the need to do my job without regard to bullying influence. It is difficult and I am glad to be able to go home to my farm at the end of the day. But I am very glad that my non-violence promise includes not throwing back hurtful words or actions.

We, too, have a principal who

Submitted by Maelynn on 2 November 2011 - 3:21pm.

We, too, have a principal who bullies. It is well-known that he is very insecure and it carries over into his treatment of all others. Just a few years ago he pulled a 12 year old boy out of the bleachers at a lyceum because he didn't like the boy's clothes. He has treated the staff in the same way and on it goes.