Reflection 1: Our Own Styles of Communication

How do
our own styles of communication affect our views of teaching, learning about
teaching, and actual work in schools?

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Rubenstein Reflection 1

Submitted by johnrube on 21 April 2012 - 7:00pm.

How
do our own styles of communication affect our views of teaching, learning
about teaching, and actual work in schools?

 
Within just
our limited LAUTR program, we all seem to have vastly distinct styles of communication.  I am learning my own communication style
by comparing it to others in the program. I do not believe that any particular
style is more correct than another. I respect them all.  We vary in the sense that some of us stand by
and listen and watch as things unfold and some of us try to effect change in
the system.  I think I tend to stand by until I see something that seems
wrong to me, and then I try to fix it. Sometimes communicating by trying to
effect change leads to friction.  What I
know is that I will be a strong advocate for my students and for my
school.  I also love to learn about
teaching.  I’m constantly reading methods
papers.  There does not appear to be a
correct communication style that results in being a good teacher.  A vast number of styles can all result in being
a good teacher.  The key is to set high
expectations for learning and to enjoy helping students.  I am learning
the various ways that different people communicate distinctly.  Grant
& Sleeter tell of a situation where students were disciplined by a teacher
for their conduct, but the students did not even know that there conduct was,
or could be viewed as, improper.  This is very important.  The key
here is that teaching is never about us, the teachers.  Teaching is always
about doing what is best for the students.  We need to be very careful
about disciplining students especially when behavior and language can be
cultural.  In Beyond Heroes page 5, the following wonderful anecdote describes
a situation where a teacher uses communication to affect change in her class’s
behavior: "...[Teacher] publicly praised her class to anyone who dropped
by.  At first the students were quite unused to this praise.  When
she said, "They are good, hard-working kids," the students would
contradict her, exclaiming, "We are not really like that!  But the
teacher persisted" and in around 6 weeks there was marked improvement in
her students.  I think this is a wonderful quote because it shows that if
you set high expectations of your students they will rise to meet them.  I
have a group of really bright 9th grade algebra students.  They are just kids though, fresh from middle
school, so they still are very chatty and full of energy.  I like the energy but, if you turn your back,
some one will stand up and start moving around. 
Working with these students has really affected the way I teach for the
better.  Utilizing the LAUTR method of
including manipulatives has been very successful with this group of students
because they need this tactile experience, in addition to other learning
modalities to understand the math.  I
learned that a lot of classroom management issues result from the students’ own
frustration.  If you give them differentiated
assignments that they can all do and be successful at, while always demanding a
high level of rigor, you get wonderful results. I am also going to start saying
more and more explicitly positive things about my students like the quote above
and see how that impacts my class too.
 

Manipulatives not manipulation

Submitted by rjoseph on 22 April 2012 - 9:56pm.

John
You raise key ideas. We can empower kids with powerful acitivies and praise. Frustration is a source of confusuion for kids and it can lead to issues in the room.  You are certainly seeing deep connections between the readings and your evoluation as a teacher.

re: Rubenstein Reflection 1

Submitted by cramirez on 22 April 2012 - 11:18pm.

I love that quote about teaching being about kids. I think if everyone genuinely worried about what is best for the kids (to be totally cliche!) and not about proving themselves right (or someone else wrong) the education field would drastically change.
As reflective teachers, I think we can encourage this point of view by working closely with our colleagues and realizing that we all intend to help students (I still believe this) but that we, through vary experiences and circumstances have come to different conclusions as to what is best for students. I think its important to always presume positive intentions (its been my mantra lately) because I think no one is in the teaching profession looking to intentionally hurt children...

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Submitted by irving1 on 1 May 2012 - 11:37pm.

You are absolutely right
John.  Call it method or style or what
have you, there is no one singular delivery approach that is more appropriate
than others.  At Bethune I’ve observed teachers
that seem to have an awesome style only to find out that their students are
lost in the lesson and truly aren’t getting even the gist of the concepts that
the teacher is trying to address.  On the
other hand, I witness teachers that have developed a teaching method like how
you describe and are effective without having to be a certain way or deliver a
lesson a specific way.  “Style” is more
than just having a shtick or gimmick.  It’s
about having a conscientious discipline policy and high expectations as you
point out.

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Submitted by johnrube on 21 April 2012 - 6:53pm.

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Kevin Tse Reflection #1

Submitted by ktse on 22 April 2012 - 6:10pm.

Reflection 1-
How do our own
styles of communication affect our views of teaching, learning about teaching,
and actual work in schools?
My styles of communcation affect my views of teaching.  I am more of an active rather than passive communicator.  I believe in confrontation when appropriate and individual conversations.  I often will tell students to be quiet, listen, and basic classroom commands in a loud teaching voice.  I am not afraid to "get in the kid's faces".  I will stop all misbehavior when it occurs.  I have had to adapt certain strategies to cater to each classroom as they are all different and demonstrate different types of problems and challenges.  My "in-your-face" approach comes with certain positives and drawbacks. It is positive and addresses issues right then and there but it is not helpful to the student who does not do well under that pressure and repsond well to confrontation.  i need to learn to adapt different teaching strategies to different types of students.  i love the work I do at my school site and believe that everyday is a new day and a new learning experience.  i am just trying to get better everyday because that is what I demand of myself.  I learned that teaching is fluid and you need to take every situation and obstacle as they come and be ready to deal with them on the fly and on the spot and be able to think quick on your feet or else you fall flat on your face.  i communicate with the students the same way i have them communicate with themselves, through dialogues and challenging questions.
How do the readings connect to our ideas and
experiences with teaching and schools? 
The readings connect to our experiences and ideas with teaching and schools in many ways.  It gives meaning and reflection and analysis to the why these experiences occur and how to deal with them.  I believe that the book "Turning on Learning" addresses real-life problems our students face everyday because of their race, skin color, SES, class, gender, and status (disabled, etc.).  Our students are often labeled into these boxes and treated like a statistic later to be condemned and pitied on the late 10'o clock news.  i have realized that teaching in the inner city is extremely rewarding and that they are not like most the negative stereotypes out there about them.  Many students are ready and capable of leraning and this dispells many of the stereotypes against their ways of learning.  I believe that each of my students has the ability to be the best they can if they would first realize that themselves and strive for it everyday.

Active

Submitted by rjoseph on 22 April 2012 - 9:58pm.

Kevin
I too am active. I agree that teaching is fluid and that we must push students. The only danger is sometimes my students view my activeness as silencing them. I work on that all the time.

Active

Submitted by rjoseph on 22 April 2012 - 9:58pm.

Kevin
I too am active. I agree that teaching is fluid and that we must push students. The only danger is sometimes my students view my activeness as silencing them. I work on that all the time.

RE: Kevin Tse

Submitted by geovanniarellano on 22 April 2012 - 10:20pm.

Kevin,
I appreciate your honesty about your style of communication. I am noticing that you recognize both positives and drawbacks from having a 'in your face' teaching style. This shows that you are being reflective about your teaching practice. I was wondering if your students actually know that you are 'hard' on them because you care about them succeeding. Is it clear to them?  Next year (actually in approx 4 months) when you have your own class there might be that one student that reacts negatively to that type of confrontation. Do you think that your mentors presence has anything to do with them not 'lashing' out? 
I am asking these questions because I am in a similar situation, where I believe my mentors presence has a lot to do how the kids behave. 
I agree with you that misbehavior has to be stopped right then and there. Students need to accept and understand that you are in charge. 
I will follow you in your quest to learn to adapt different teaching strategies to different types of students because I too need to acquire that skill.
What works for one student may not necessarily work for the rest. 
-peace
-geo

Tin Lam - Reflection 1

Submitted by tinzulam on 23 April 2012 - 1:11am.

I have a few styles of communication that I use in the classroom. One of the strategies that I rely on the most is drawing pictures and diagrams on the board. I try to use a lot of my imagination to understand science, and I use drawings to project what I am thinking because words are simply not enough. Learning chemistry requires a lot of models and analogies, since the majority of the foundation for chemistry is nanoscopic. Being unable to interact at the atomic level has caused me to rely on drawings a lot for both teaching and learning chemistry. Another style of communication, one that I wish I could stop using, is making faces that are indicative of what I am thinking. For example, I cannot hide it very well when a student responds with a wrong answer. Every time I hear an incorrect answer, my face cringes or my brows raise. I do similar things when my students guess correctly and are unsure. I am hoping to be able to stop doing these things because they immediately indicate to the student whether they are right or wrong without requirign them to think more about their responses. I would like them to decide for themselves that they are right, or discover for themselves why they are wrong, without relying on reading my expressions all the time.

alternative modes of teaching

Submitted by Ldsandoval on 23 April 2012 - 1:58am.

Tin Im glad you are serving your students well by constantly giving them different insights of learning the material, using manipulatives, drawing pictures, and analogies is crucial not just for chemistry, but for Math as well.  This is something that I have been struggling with but want to incorporate more and more into my classroom.  Due to the heterogenous types of students i have, I need to come up with alternative modes for students to approach Mathematics.  Doing this is sometimes requires work, but it's worth it when you witness your students succeed and achieve those things that they thought wasn't possible, like learning Math and Science.  

Hey Tin, I know what you mean

Submitted by yrpetersen4 on 23 April 2012 - 2:18pm.

Hey Tin,
I know what you mean about not being able to hide
your thoughts because your facial expressions give you away. I’m constantly
working on that and have yet to master that skill.
Yanett

Mister! Miss! Did I do it right?

Submitted by jasfawn on 24 April 2012 - 9:13pm.

This has been my struggle as well Tin.  I at first, would tell the students if they got it right or wrong. I transitioned into telling them, I'm not sure - look at it, to what do you think?  And now as we get closer to the end of the year, I try my best to  not look at the answer they have, and ask, "why would that be true? Show me the evidence you have to support your answer..." Some students respond, "Ms. Just tell me the answer." But if I stand to my ground they'll work through their process and either find the errors themselves, or as they go through talking out their solution, I can scaffold questions to help them find their error.  Learning how to deal with not communicating the solution has been hard and and I have learned that facial communication is even harder to control when I am thinking about whether or not they did it right.  If I asked them to show me their evidence, as they look down at their paper to collect their thoughts, it buys me time to think about their answer.  Thank you for sharing your thoughts!

the diversity of students.

Submitted by Ldsandoval on 23 April 2012 - 1:52am.

How do diverse students interact at your school sites? How do you find
race, gender, sexual identity, class, and/or language issues are affecting your
current work as teachers and educators?

The high school I am teaching at is
Stern Mass High School; it is composed of 97% Latin-American students.  Out of all my classes, I only have one
African American student that happens to have a language impediment.  This student is a very bright student,
and other students acknowledge that, but they also tend to discuss between
themselves the awkward facial expressions he makes or the quality of speech he
uses to communicate.  Students
could do a better job of incorporating the 3% minority of cultures into their
groups. 
The varying socio economic status
in my classrooms is unidentified because of the policy of wearing uniforms in class.  Students do observe what type of phone
they each have, their shoes, the cars their parents drop them off in, what
technology they bring to school (Ipad, laptops). These observations amongst
each other in my opinion have not made an impact on how the students interact
with each other. 
Most of my students come from the
surrounding area of East Los Angeles, according to the KIDS COUNT Data Book,
1/3 students come from a household where their parents are unemployed.  This means students are required to
work, required to help around the house, more burdens are placed on these
students, not to mention the lack of the basic necessities of food, clothing,
and proper living space and environment. 
This definitely affects my students in their classrooms. 

2 things

Submitted by dannyduarte333 on 24 April 2012 - 6:52pm.

Their are two ideas that came to me after I read your response to communication. The first, what does communication mean to students? Do students see the idea of communicating as just talking? Perhaps communication may just seem like using language to exchange and discuss ideas. However, what you are talking about seems deeper than just a superficial definition of communication. Perhaps students are also communicating using visual communication to display a message of the ever changing climate like the color of leaves on trees letting us know that their is a change in seasons. These kids communicate, visually, some of their beliefs, assets, and obstacles. Which brought foward the second idea. What message are our students trying to communicate to their colleagues, and what is more relevant, what message are our students trying to communicate to us, as their teachers? We as educators must tread careful in reading the messages being communicated by our students and be able to identify those assets and obstacles. Perhaps students may see their material objects as assets, but we live in a modernized world were some students are quick to run to the computer and internet and avoid the seemingly tedious action of thinking. It is our duty to be able to harness those technologically and affluent behaviors in order to prevent what students may see as assets from becoming their future obstacles.

Roman Petersen Reflection #1

Submitted by yrpetersen4 on 23 April 2012 - 2:15pm.

Reflection Prompt 1 –
How do our own styles of communication affect our views of teaching, learning
about teaching, and actual work in schools? How do the readings connect to our
ideas and experiences with teaching and schools?

 
How do our own styles of communication affect our views of teaching,
learning about teaching, and actual work in schools?

 
In the past my assertive communication skills have affected
me in a negative manner. My husband always quotes a marriage book we both read
when we discuss my way of communication, “its not what you say that’s wrongs,
it’s the way you say it”. Through the years I have tried to work on my
communications skills with others to help aid and build relationships. As a
student teacher I feel I try my best to monitor my tone, and expressions when
directing my students, or masking my disappointment with scores and lack of
motivation from their part. Yet, I have had the pleasure of developing a number
of different relationships with my students where they feel comfortable enough
to tell me when I have “attitude” or sound authoritative. The first time I
heard a comment like this from one of my advisory students, it through me back,
as I was really not trying to give him attitude/sounds authoritative. This
comment made me analyze my demeanor, body language, and facial expressions,
when addressing my students. Because part of my communication skills rely
heavily on my uncontrolled facial expressions, not just tone, it is
increasingly hard for me to hide my thoughts over a matter as my facial
expressions often give me away.
 
How do the readings connect to our ideas and experiences with teaching
and schools?

 
Grant & Sleether
Ch1 & Ch2 from the reading hit home in terms of current
experience with teaching. I teach Biology at LASGS where my mentor teacher is
one of the most easy going, accepting people, I have had the pleasure of
knowing. Because of his character he has developed a reputation among the students
and faculty at my school. When I first came into the classroom, my 10th
grade Biology students had already had him for 9th grade science,
and where well aware of his teaching strategies. Thus I came in as an unwanted
outsider. There was a strong sense of resistance form my students, and at times
it was hard not to take the resistance personal. As people came to observe me I
often got encouraging reports where they stated next year with my own classroom
it would be easier. They often compared my mentor and me as parents, where if
one parent said no the child simply goes and asks the other parent.
Gradually my situation has improved but the following quote
form Ch1, still burns in the back of my head.
“When the gap between teacher and student is not bridged,
learning gets ‘turned off.’  Motivation
to learn and to pass tests, including achievement tests wanes.  In upper grades, thoughts about leaving
school increase.  In these circumstances,
students are as much ‘pushed out’ of school as they drop out.  Symptoms of turned-off learning include
students’ seeming inabilities to grasp concepts, to exert effort, and to
display enthusiasm; repeated lateness or absence; boredom; avoidance; and
sloppy or poor quality work. 
Furthermore, gifted and talented students tend to underperform, doing
just enough to get by.  When students are
turned off, teaching feels like a chore or even a battle.” Page 3

class management communication

Submitted by dannyduarte333 on 24 April 2012 - 7:30pm.

The quote that it's not the message, but the manner really captivates me.  This statement is a powerful summary given the different experiences that we have been put through in the classroom, both as teachers and as students. As a teacher, students tend to be receptive to our  general sense of emotions. Recently, I was put in a situation were I reacted. I snapped at my student for talking about something other than the group assignment. I had forgotten learning styles. I realized after, that she is the type of student that learns in an interpersonal manner. I felt even worse, because I communicated my frustrations to her and her group, in front of the rest of the class. I realized after this situation that I had essentially followed the behavior that turns off student engagement. Newton's 3rd Law states that every action has an equal and OPPOSITE reaction. My reactionary behavior can potentially push a student to act in a negative manner toward the curriculum and mask the beauty of the subject. As students, we have been put into positions were perhaps the manner with which we voice our concerns and frustrations is one that can deteriorate the message being communicated. It is our duty as people to act in a professional and respectful manner. Some people tend to learn this behavior later than others, but it is our duty as teachers to always model respectful professionalism both for these students development as people and to prevent our students from running away from the subject we have been entrusted to teach.

Reflection # 1

Submitted by mike52006 on 23 April 2012 - 2:51pm.

Communication is important in the classroom. The teacher needs to find a way to communicate the content to the students in a way for them to understand it. This might be orally through lecture, visually through graphics and pictures, or through a kinesthetic activity. There are many instructional strategies that have been taught in the past year through the course work which help the teacher teach the content to all the students. I think growing up and attending schools were traditional teaching like lectures were common, I am more used to the typical old fashioned style of teaching. Although being in LAUTR and having been exposed to problem based learning, I am learning and applying other great ways to teach and communicate to students.

My way of communicating

Submitted by dannyduarte333 on 23 April 2012 - 8:46pm.

 
Being in this program has been in some ways contrary to the type of person that i can be. The first noticeable change was the amount of emotional involvement. The second was the way I communicate and the importance of clarity. There has been a realization that some problems with teaching a lesson is communicating the information that a students needs to acquire. This has been especially true with children with Individualized Educational Programs. I am fortunate enough to be involved in a field wher communicating a topic for discussion to a forum where nobody has been exposed to that type of information is common. This exposure has facilitated communicating the lessons that need to be taught. There have been many ideas thrown at us in this program and one of the ideas that comes to my mind is learning styles. Learning styles offers a way to communicate a lesson that expands the means of communication. Communication, for me, at times, has been something that I have struggled with. This is particularly true when it is a need to communicate the need for help to someone. This aspect of my personality has been contrary to what is needed to be an effective teacher. It is absolutely essential to harness the support from any and all resources and communicate with peers where ever possible. The other aspect of communication that I know to be important is student feedback. I have seen how important it is to communicate to students on their performance. Students need to know how well their doing and what they can do to improve. I believe that it is my duty to consistently update students on how they are doing in a timely fashion. I have seen the potential effects of not doing so. I hope to establish a systematic approach that offers student continual and relevant feedback in a timely manner, which can be an obstacle for some teachers.

Communicating Lessons for different learning styles

Submitted by jasfawn on 24 April 2012 - 8:55pm.

This reminds me of a conversation that I had today with a student in my advisory. A couple of weeks some teachers and people who work the afterschool programming began a peer mediated tutoring program.  My student began getting tutoring through the program, and I was talking to her about how she liked the program.  She said she really enjoyed it because it gave her the opportunity to learn about the mathematical concepts with someone in a one-on-one environment.  Said that type of learning works best for her because she gets to understand the material the way she needs to, in order to retain it.  I told her, that I am too learning a lot right now in grad school, and I learned that she has an "Interpersonal" Learning style, and its great that she knows about how she learns best.  Just as it is important for you to understand your students learning styles, it a great opportunity to have students learn about how they learn.  I think it's great that you take this into account when you are teaching.

commuinication and feedback

Submitted by rjoseph on 26 April 2012 - 5:39pm.

I agree we need feedback. We do need to harness support from all possible resources. I am eager to find out the multiple ways you will work with kids. Your reference to Newton's 3rd law is truly brilliant when it comes to communication.

Being open to help

Submitted by ebengunadi on 30 April 2012 - 12:50pm.

Your englightenment on the need of being open to help strikes a chord of resonance within my life.  Up until now, I've never really shared exactly how I was informed of this program.  It was in the evening of my first CSET testing.  I was standing anxiously in the courtyard of the testing site, amidts a group of elderly future teachers-to-be, with a stapled jumble of physics equation sheets in one hand.  It was then that my eyes beheld a gorgeous looking Asian female sitting in the cafeteria, looking cool and confident with her aviator sunglasses twinkling in the sunlight.  It wasn't long before I began to approach her--that is, after overcoming my initial nerve jitters.  
"So are you ready to beast this test?" I asked her.  
"Not really, I failed the math CSETs last time.  I really hope I'll pass this time," she responded.
We then procedeed to talk about how the math CSETs were difficult for her.  I found out that she is also a fellow Bruin, although I forgot what major she was (I do know, however, that it had nothing to do with math).  We then breached the topic of school applications.
"So what teaching program are you planning to join?  Did you apply to TEP?  I'll probably be going there," I mentioned.
"Yeah, TEP is good, but I just don't want to take out any more loans.  I tried applying to this program called LAUTR last year, but I couldn't get in because I didn't pass the CSETs.  I hope I get in this year," she said.  
She then proceeded to tell me about all the benefits that LAUTR has to offer, ending with a "You should check it out!"
And I still remember my last words to her.  "Yeah, definitely!  I'll be sure check it out."
I never did get her number, but thanks to her I'm getting a M.Ed and teaching credentials in a few of months. 

My Past Due Reflection

Submitted by edelacy on 24 April 2012 - 9:10pm.

Our communication styles
would have to affect our expectations for our students. It would seem natural
to expect from others the same sort of reactions or responses that you,
yourself would provide. This means in learning and teaching, teachers’ initial reaction
would be to treat the students as the teachers were treated, with the
expectation that students will respond as the teachers responded when in the
same position years earlier.
 The tricky thing about
teaching is making sure not to fall into this habit. To some extent it’s very
useful to remember how you learned. Once you know something, it’s easy to
forget the struggle involved in acquiring that information. Especially when the
same material is taught year after year, if a teacher forgets what was
undertaken to learn the material, she might easily find herself frustrated with
her students when it takes them a while to learn. For this reason it is useful
to be aware of how the material was initially learned.
 It’s also important to
remember that when the teacher learned the material for the first time, her
understanding of it probably was not at the same level that it is now. That
means even if she remembers finding the material easy, she may not have fully
understood it.
 In order to facilitate
students’ learning, a teacher needs to think about what it is the students
should be absorbing, and then must determine the best method for delivery,
understanding that some struggle is necessary.
 “Passively accepting the
status quo of any culture is thus inconsistent with this level of multicultural
education; simply substituting one myth for another contradicts its basic
assumptions because no group is inherently superior or more heroic than any
other.” – Sonia Nieto
This quote made more sense to
me yesterday when I selected it. I don’t know what it means right now. I think I
selected it because it made sense when I considered how my school is trying to
change the way our students think about gay people.
“… The overarching capitalist
principals of turning everything, including human beings and intangibles such
as love, into commodities (‘commodificiation”) for sale, and of maximizing
profits have been practiced at the expense of human life and human spirit, the
environment and whatever else necessary.” – Margo Okazawa-Rey
 I selected this quote because
we are introducing a lesson on human capital. Describing human capital can
sound pretty bad, but if we’re honest, we’re in the business of building human
capital. Right now most teachers would consider themselves unsuccessful if the market
value of their students is less than the average market value of a typical American.
It sounds gross to think of people in these terms, but that’s what we do. I am
getting a Master’s degree to make myself more valuable. I want my students to go
to college so they will be more valuable. I want my students to be valued at a
fair market price. This is the way our system works right now. 

atomic level

Submitted by rjoseph on 26 April 2012 - 5:32pm.

So much of what we do is beyond physical sight...So what can we do? What must we do?

communication style and class management

Submitted by bvillalb on 12 May 2012 - 5:53pm.

Our job is to teach conduct, English and finally
content.  We will get measured by how the
students perform in the content area but the former two items are prerequisites
to the latter and will have a longer lasting effect on their futures.<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" />

Teaching content is relatively easy.  Teaching conduct is tough.   How we communicate as teachers in the
classroom is an important aspect of classroom management.  Ten months ago I had never heard the term
“classroom management”.  Now I realize it
is the precursor to creating an environment where teaching and learning can
occur. 

In regards to communication style it is more important how
you say it, rather than what you say. Body language is important and so your
tone of voice and voice inflection.  Many
people say things like it is a question instead of a command.  

Most importantly you must be consistent.  I have had problems with class management
when I am “acting” differently.  This
happens when I am being observed or when I get feedback regarding class management
and I over correct.   The students don’t react well to this
inconsistency. 

I’ve had three bad days where I questioned
whether it was worth it. You feel like you got things figured out and then you
feel like you don’t know anything.  There
is a reason that teachers don’t get paid well. 
There is no way you can get people to do this job for the pay.  But I would do it for nothing because I like
the way it makes me feel.  I am doing
something important.  Teaching is a
shortcut to the top of Maslow’s hierarchy. 
  At least that’s how I feel on
most days.

FISA allows the government to

Submitted by joshua08 on 20 September 2012 - 5:00pm.

FISA allows the government to target foreign nationals and to intercept their communications with American citizens without a warrant as required by the Fourth Amendment.-<a href="http://www.missedfortuneradio.com/">Missed Fortune</a>